Anal Sex Play - Is it for me?
If you’re new to anal play, there are some things you will want to consider when you first try it. The anus does not self lubricate so using a good personal lubricant is essential. Go slow. Don’t rush into it. The most important thing you can do is to relax your muscles before you begin. Tense muscles will not lend to a pleasurable experience. Start by trying smaller toys and if you find that anal sex play works for you, gradually move up to something larger. Choose a smaller butt plug with a flared base. The base is very important because the last thing you want is for the toy to slip into the anal cavity and be unable to retrieve it. Believe it or not, the anal cavity is filled with sensitive nerve endings that when stimulated, can produce intense orgasms capable of rivalling those had through traditional sexual intercourse. Is Anal Sex Play for Me?
For women, anal penetration stimulates the perineal as well as the pudendal connecting to the clitoris. Because the anal cavity rests closely to her G-spot, any kind of anal stimulation coming from the back-end becomes only intensifies with the combination of anal stimulation and g-spot stimulation. Can women reach an orgasm from anal sex? Absolutely!
With men, because the prostate gland is located internally between his bladder and penis, resting just behind the rectum, it can be stimulated easily through anal sex play. There are a wide variety of butt plugs designed specifically to reach the right spots for both male and female.
- Once the butt plug is in, how does it stay? It depends on the plug. It is important to choose one with a wider bulb with a significantly narrower neck near the base so that it cannot pass through the sphincter muscles and slip out.
- How long can anal beads be put in the rear? It’s usually a personal preference. While they are intended to be used during anal sex play, some people will wear them all day while some will simply use them for a matter of hours. You should never leave them in any longer than you can comfortably wear them.
- What is better, a butt plug or anal beads? It really depends on what your end goal is. Beads and plugs are used for different things. Beads are better used during orgasm for a more intense experience by inserting and removing repeatedly. Butt plugs are typically left in over longer periods of time for an enhanced sexual experience.
- Are butt plugs uncomfortable? If you’re new to anal sex play, anything entering the anal cavity can be a little uncomfortable at first. This is one of the reasons why many people choose to use an anal starter kit, to help become more comfortable with the experience before diving right in.
- Can you wear a butt plug all day? Some people do, although it's not typically recommended to wear one more than a few hours at a time. If you notice any pain, blood or discomfort, you should remove the toy immediately.
- Can anal sex toys be fun? Of course! While it’s not for everyone, it’s certainly pleasurable for those who swear by it and it can be for you too if you’re in the right frame of mind and willing to try something new.
- Is using an anal sex toy dangerous? Not typically but you do need to take care to relax and go slowly and always use plenty of lube to prevent injury. Never share sex toys without using a condom as you can expose yourself to STDs and nobody wants that.
Things to Consider When Choosing Anal Sex Toys
