Wrapped Up in Pleasure

Looking for a sex position that’s as intimate as it is exciting? The Seat of Sensation is an upright twist on reverse cowgirl that’s all about staying close, comfortable, and deeply connected while still turning up the heat! This position is perfect for those times when you want to feel every movement without the need for a complicated setup, ideal for lazy afternoons, slow-burn evenings, or those moments when you want to enjoy a relaxed, sensual connection with your lucky lover…

Here’s how it works: the penetrating partner sits comfortably on a chair, the edge of the bed, or a soft surface of your choice while the other sits back on them, facing forward as well. The base partner gets a front-row seat to all the action, with the power to help guide the rhythm from below if they like. The riding partner on top takes the reins, controlling the pace, pressure, and movement. Whether you’re easing into it with slow, sensual grinding or picking up the pace for something a bit more intense, this position allows for plenty of flexibility and exploration—while the top partner leans back and enjoys full-body chest-to-back skin contact, the penetrating person can let their hands roam all over their partner’s body, or pepper kisses and love bites along their neck, shoulders, and back (which is an often-overlooked erogenous zone).

If you’re in need of a strap-on dildo to pull off this sex position, why not try things from a different angle with a thigh harness like this one from Sportsheets®? This lets the partner on top straddle the other person’s leg if they prefer forward grinding and bouncing motions over thrusting their hips backwards . And of course, a good-quality water-based lubricant like Wicked® Aqua™ is a must to keep things gliding smoothly, ensuring a comfortable and seamless experience from start to finish. 

So sit back, get comfortable, and let the sensations take over. This sex position is all about letting the pleasure build naturally while staying wrapped up in each other—enjoy the ride!