Sex Position of the Week
Triple the Fun
This week, we're diving into the exciting world of threesomes! A threesome is a dynamic, adventurous arrangement involving three individuals of any gender and offers a unique blend of interactions and pleasures that can enhance intimate experiences. It can be lots of fun for everyone, but creating the right atmosphere is crucial for a successful threesome.
Start by ensuring that all participants are comfortable and enthusiastic about the experience. Communication is key — discuss boundaries, desires, and any potential concerns beforehand, particularly if two of the participants are in a relationship with each other. Establishing clear guidelines and safe words is essential to help maintain a consensual and enjoyable environment for everybody.
Once everyone is on the same page, set the mood with a relaxed and inviting ambience — dim the lights, play some soft music, and make sure the space is clean and comfortable beforehand. One of the great advantages of a threesome is the ability to explore various forms of pleasure and connection. Whether it's through alternating roles, using toys, or simply enjoying the presence of multiple partners, the possibilities are endless. Remember to stay attuned to each other's needs and reactions, adjusting as necessary to ensure everyone's comfort and enjoyment.
Adding lubricant and potentially some sex toys to the mix can also enhance the experience. We recommend a flavoured lubricant as oral is extremely common in threesomes! 😉
Flavoured lubricants are also water-based, meaning they’re safe to use with sex toys made from silicone, and incorporating sex toys can add an extra layer of excitement to the fun. For participants with a vulva, the Sexyland Excite Clitoral Stimulator is perfect for external clitoral stimulation while kissing, breast play, and/or penetration is going on. As for people with penises, an open-ended toy like the Fun Factory Manta can introduce new sensations and elevate pleasure while also leaving most of the penis exposed for the other participants to play with!
After the excitement of a threesome, it's essential to engage in aftercare. This involves checking in with all participants to ensure they feel comfortable and respected. This helps maintain trust and intimacy, ensuring that everyone leaves the experience feeling satisfied and valued!