The Wraparound

This week, we’re covering the classic lotus sex position (plus some ways to spice it up) to give you and a partner a front-row seat to full-body intimacy! With both partners wrapped around each other in a seated embrace, this one’s all about deep connection and steamy closeness, so let’s dive right in…

The penetrating partner stays grounded while sitting up on any surface that’s long enough to have their legs outstretched on (or their legs can be loosely bent depending on what’s more comfortable). The receiving partner straddles their lap with their arms looped around their lover’s neck and legs wrapped tight around them too. You can experiment with leg placements, such as around the waist (easiest), hooked over the penetrating partner’s arms (a little harder), or over their shoulders (hardest) to switch up the depth of penetration and sensations!

Because you’re face to face, it’s perfect for slow kisses, teasing whispers, and locking eyes while you build the rhythm together. There’s something beautifully collaborative about this position, with both partners relying on each other’s movement and balance to stay connected. The closeness makes every thrust feel amplified, and it’s easy to shift between gentle grinding and deep, rolling motion. For added stimulation, the giving partner can wear a vibrating cock ring like the Sexyland Buzzy Bunny, bringing a new stimulation to an already sensational experience!

This is a perfect go-to sex position when you want to take your time, stay close, and get lost in the build-up. Slow, sensual, and soaked in connection, it’s one of those positions that can feel both grounding and electric all at once.