The Pin

This sex position is all about depth, control, and tantalising tension to spice things up in the bedroom! The receiving partner lies on the edge of the bed or couch while the other partner stands between their legs and holds up their lover’s outer leg, either with an arm under the receiver’s knee or propping their ankle onto the penetrating partner’s shoulder, depending on flexibility and comfort levels. This creates a lifted angle that allows for slow, deliberate movement and deep connection. The standing partner controls the pace while the reclining partner can relax into the sensation and enjoy feeling supported, held, and deliciously spread…

Because this position keeps the pelvis elevated, it’s perfect for grinding, rocking, and staying locked into a steady rhythm rather than fast thrusting. Eye contact is easy, hands are free to roam, and small shifts in angle can completely change how each movement feels!

The Sexyland Phantom Super-Power Comfort Handle Wand Vibrator fits effortlessly into this position, adding steady external stimulation that complements the slow, controlled rhythm without distracting you thanks to the specially designed comfort handle, which minimises vibration transference into the user’s hand. The long handle makes it easy to use without interrupting the flow of the fun, and the steady vibration helps build intensity with every slow movement.

Take your time here. Focus on deep breaths, steady motion and staying connected through touch. The combination of elevation, closeness and added vibration turns this into a position that feels indulgent, intimate and seriously satisfying!