The Countdown

Have your own special kind of countdown to start your new year off with a bang thanks to The Countdown! This sex position involves edging, whether you're doing it to yourself or letting a lover take control if you're staying in this silly season. 

How to perform The Countdown edging sex position

If you're not familiar with the concept, edging is where you bring yourself right to the brink of orgasm without letting yourself go over. You can do this multiple times to keep building up the intensity, and when you do finally let yourself orgasm, you won't know what hit you...

One of the easier positions to do this in, either on your own or with your lover, is lying on your back, with the other person standing at the edge of the bed or kneeling next to you. The person in charge of the fun uses their hands or takes a vibrating toy to your genitals, getting you close to the edge, then bringing you back down, again and again until they feel like you deserve to finish. If you and your partner are feeling extra adventurous, spice things up with some power play and restraint play, so you can be sure the subject won't budge. Don't forget that you need to be honest and let them know when you're close though so they can keep the game going! 😉

A great toy to use on someone with a vulva and clitoris is a rabbit vibrator with independent controls for the insertable and external heads, like the California Dreaming® Tahoe Temptation! You can toggle the heads separately to keep her on her toes while you edge her, switching between G-spot and clitoral stimulation.

For someone with a penis, the Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Penis Stroker is the perfect addition to your edge play. The soft, flexible wings wrap around the shaft and send vibrations all throughout his penis. Meanwhile, you can use your other hand to stimulate his balls to give his whole package the whole package!