The Confidence Ride

A classic position that puts connection and confidence front and centre, The Confidence Ride is a face-to-face position that allows both partners to stay close, communicate and enjoy the experience together. It’s a popular choice for couples who want a little more control, closeness and opportunity to check in with each other.

To get into this position, one partner lies back in a comfortable position while the other partner sits facing them. Start slowly and take time to find a rhythm and positioning that feels natural for both partners. Using pillows for extra support can help create a more comfortable setup, while adjusting your posture can make it easier to stay relaxed and connected.

As this is a more visual, face-to-face position, it can also be a fun opportunity to add a little extra confidence and playfulness. A favourite lingerie set, a fun costume or dressing up for the occasion can help create a more exciting atmosphere and bring a little fantasy into the bedroom.

One of the best parts of this position is the ability to focus on communication and reading each other’s body language. Eye contact, touch, encouragement and checking in with your partner can all help create a more enjoyable experience. Small changes in pace, movement or positioning can make a big difference, so don’t be afraid to experiment and find what works best together.

The Confidence Ride is all about feeling comfortable, connected and in control. Whether you’re trying something new or adding variety to your routine, it’s a position that celebrates confidence, chemistry and enjoying the moment together.