Slow Ride

There’s a reason some rides are best enjoyed slow, and this week’s featured sex position is the perfect example. Meet Slow Ride: a deeply sensual and intimate setup that focuses on connection, control, and pleasure in equal measure!

To get into this position, the penetrating partner lies comfortably on their back while the receiving partner straddles them, knees bent with their body upright but relaxed. The pace isn’t about speed or urgency, it’s about rhythm—a gentle grind, tenderly rocking back and forth for a build-up that teases and rewards in waves…

To elevate the experience, consider an anal plug like the Sexyland Charm Rose Gold Metal Butt Plug with Heart Gem (available in small, medium, and large sizes)! Whether you're using it for its romantic visual appeal, the physical pleasure of double penetration and tighter sensations, or all of the above, a butt plug complements the intimacy of the position by deepening sensation and heightening awareness of every motion.

Slow Ride thrives on responsiveness. It isn’t about performance or theatrics, but about tuning into what feels good and leaning into it. Many couples will find the slow rocking more satisfying than traditional thrusting, especially if the goal is to draw out pleasure and stay fully present with each other. Others might turn to it as a way to reconnect after a long day, using it to rediscover each other without pressure or distraction. It’s a position that rewards patience and attentiveness, and in today’s world, which always seems to be moving faster and faster, Slow Ride might be exactly what you didn’t know you needed.