Riding - Races (cowgirl) + crop

Race season is here, and while everyone else is studying the form guide, you might prefer to stay in and do some riding of your own.

In this position, the partner on top takes the reins. They set the speed, the angle and the rhythm, which makes it a great pick for anyone who enjoys leading. The partner underneath gets a front-row view and free hands to wander.

Now for the accessory. A riding crop brings a playful bit of theatre, and it doesn’t need to be about impact at all. Trailing the tip along a thigh or tapping it lightly against your palm can build plenty of anticipation on its own.

If you’d like to try a light tap, agree on it before you start. Chat about how firm feels good and which spots are off limits. Fleshy areas like the thighs and bottom are the usual go-to, while the lower back, spine and joints are best left alone.

Start softer than you think you need to and build up gradually. A simple traffic light system works well here: “green” for keep going, “amber” for ease off and “red” for stop.

Who holds the crop is completely up to you. The rider might use it to set the pace, or the partner below might give the occasional cheeky flick. Swap and see which way you prefer.

Once you’re done, take a moment to reconnect. A cuddle, a glass of water or a chat about your favourite bits makes a sweet finish.

No bets needed for this one. Just pick your pace and enjoy the ride.