National Sex Toy Day - Self-pleasure + Suction Toy

There’s a whole day set aside for sex toys this month, and we can’t think of a better excuse to treat yourself. This one is all about you. No partner, no schedule and no one to impress.

If you’re new to solo play, a suction toy is a lovely place to start. Instead of direct vibration, it uses gentle pulses of air, which can feel quite different from a standard vibrator. Most have a range of settings, so you can begin low and work your way up.

Look for one made from body-safe silicone, then set aside some proper time. Pick a moment when you won’t be interrupted and get yourself comfortable. A little water-based lube helps the toy sit nicely against your skin.

If anything feels too strong, drop back a setting or take a short break. There’s no right way to do this, and your body is the best guide you’ve got.

Self-pleasure is one of the easiest ways to learn what you enjoy, which can make it easier to share with a partner later if you want to. It doesn’t need a bigger purpose, though. Feeling good is reason enough.

Afterwards, wash your toy with warm soapy water or a toy cleaner and pop it back in its pouch. That way it’s ready for next time.

So light a candle, put your phone on silent and celebrate the day exactly as it was intended.