Ride or DIY

Who needs a plus-one when you’ve got a suction-cupped dildo and a little imagination? The Ride or DIY masturbation position is all about taking matters into your own hands...or hips, rather. This power move is perfect for those days (or nights) when you’re craving that deep, hands-free ride that hits just right, without having to rely on anyone else to deliver.

To get started, choose your favourite suction cup dildo and press down firmly attach it to a flat, solid surface; the shower wall, a hardwood floor, or even the side of the bathtub are all fair game. (Just make sure it’s nice and secure—this is not the moment for surprises!) Once your dildo is mounted, it’s time to mount it! Get yourself in a deep squat or kneel over it (depending on your comfort and angle preferences), then insert it and enjoy the ride! 

The beauty of this position is that you call the shots. Pace, rhythm, depth, it’s all up to you. You can go slow and teasing, or really grind it out until your legs are shaking. Looking for a little extra magic? For vulva-owners, a clitoral toy offers double the stimulation, and for penis-havers, adding a masturbator adds a stroking element to your pleasure party. Pro tip: Pop a pillow under your knees (or even a pillow under each shin) for comfort if you’re going all-in on the floor.

Ride or DIY is a great reminder that solo play isn’t just a warm-up act,  it’s the main event. Confidence-boosting, toe-curling, and totally in your control. Saddle up!