Mutual Satisfaction

As the month of Masturbation May comes to a close, we encourage you to bring your masturbation practices into your relationships. This might seem like an intimidating process if it’s a new leap for you, but consider this a new way to connect with your partner and invite them to witness your pleasure. This could be a chance to enjoy watching, or a chance to simply learn more about them, their body, how to please them, and vice versa!

Firstly, get comfortable and set the mood somewhere that all parties have space to explore and can prop themselves up to ensure they have a good view of one another. This can be done in the same room or virtually if you find yourselves separated by long distances. Once you’re both comfortable, both parties can watch, listen, and ask questions. Communicate with one another during the process so that you can both learn. Talk about anything and everything, from what you’re doing to how it feels to what you’re focusing on. Make sure to let your partner know what you’re enjoying about the experience, too.

Depending on your anatomy and preferences, adding in a toy could be a great way to spice things up! For something easy, some of our bestsellers for vulva-owners and penis-owners, respectively, are the Leto Echo Bullet Vibrator and the Fleshlight® Quickshot™ Vantage Masturbator. Both items are small enough that they won’t obstruct the view of the action (the Quickshot is even transparent!), and simple to use so the other person can even take over if you feel like submitting to their control… 😉