Lean on Me

Looking for something that’s equal parts chilled out and seriously hot? Lean On Me is all about slow, deep connection with zero rush and maximum comfort. The penetrating partner sits upright with their legs stretched out, supporting themselves with their arms or a sturdy backrest/headboard, while the other partner straddles them facing the same way and sinks onto their penis or strap-on, leaning back against their partner’s chest. They can keep their knees bent on either side of the penetrating partner’s thighs or lay them out flat on top of their partner’s outstretched legs, placing their hands on their partner’s thighs for support.

This position is relaxed, intimate, and ridiculously good for lazy weekend sessions or those nights where neither of you feel like breaking a sweat. The deep angle created from the lean-back gives you access to all the right spots while keeping your hands free to wander wherever they please!

This is also the perfect position to bring some sex toys into the mix. A remote- or app-controlled wearable vibrator nestled between bodies? Yes please. A vibrating butt plug in the riding partner for both partners to enjoy the sensations of? Even better! The seated partner gets a front-row view and full-body contact while the rider is in control of rhythm, pace and just how wild things get.

The Lean On Me sex position is a reminder that you don’t need to be swinging from the ceiling or bound in a strappy contraption to have a good time. Sometimes, the hottest moments are the ones where you’re literally just resting on each other and letting the pleasure build slowly! So get comfy, grab your favourite toy and let the ride begin…