Leading Them On

If you’re looking to add a little dominance, excitement, and control to your intimate moments, try Leading Them On — this kink-flavoured take on doggy-style adds a collar and leash to the mix as a thrilling way to take things to the next level! The addition of a collar and leash adds an element of power play that’s as playful as it is electrifying, creating a deeper connection between partners while keeping the energy adventurous and uninhibited with a tantalising mix of dominance and submission. It’s the perfect setup to explore trust, boundaries, and desire in a way that feels empowering for both sides!

As with all sexual activities, but BDSM in particular, consent and communication are key here. Discuss your comfort levels, boundaries, and how much tension on the leash feels right before diving in. Remember, even the lightest tug can add an irresistible sense of control, so it’s not about force but rather the teasing power of gentle direction. This allows both partners to play with the dynamic, building pleasure with every thrust, pull, or whispered command.

To set the scene, have the receiving partner wear their collar and get on all fours or bend over, whether on the bed, a couch, or a cushioned section of the floor, whatever feels most comfortable. The penetrating partner can then attach and take hold of the leash, using it to guide and set the rhythm of the experience as gently or as roughly as you’re both into. The dominant partner can tug on the leash to pull their lover back into their body for more intense thrusts, or let it drape gently over their shoulders and back as a subtle reminder of how hot the situation is!

Need to get a collar and leash set to try out this kinky sex position? There’s a wide range of collars out there, from small and lightweight sets to heavier-duty pieces, but for sleek and simple setup, ZYL's Faux Leather D-Ring Collar & Chain Leash is the perfect pick. Not only does it come with both pieces so you can get started straight away, it’s also made from faux leather to suit vegan kinksters so everyone can enjoy this collar and leash set!

Leading Them On is about trust, excitement, and letting go of inhibitions. It allows partners to explore a more daring, playful dynamic that brings both physical pleasure and emotional connection to the forefront. So, why not embrace the thrill of control and surrender? With Sexyland’s 2-hour delivery service, you can have all the essentials to make this experience unforgettable — leash up, take the lead, and let the fun begin!