Lap of Luxury

21 October 2025

Looking for a sex position that blends deep intimacy with effortless control? The Lap of Luxury is the perfect position pick for you!

To get started with this position, the receiving partner straddles the giver and grinds while both people face forward, creating a grounded, sensual rhythm that allows for a hands-free ride and maximum lower body stimulation. With the giver’s legs extended and their back supported by a headboard, couch, or wall, this sex position encourages relaxed exploration, deeper penetration, and full-body connection without the strain. If you’re craving more pressure or a deeper rhythm, the receiving partner can lean back slightly or place their hands on the giver’s thighs for stability and leverage.

To elevate the experience, try spicing up foreplay with a massage oil like JO® Naturals Lavender & Tahitian Vanilla-Scented Massage Oil. Once you’re in position, its silky glide will enhance every skin-on-skin movement, turning slow strokes and gentle grinding into an all-consuming sensory experience, and the person in the back can even continue the massage while kneading their partner’s neck, shoulders, back, buttocks, thighs, and more! Apply liberally before settling in for a full-body tease that slips oh-so-smoothly into something more intense…

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