High in the Saddle
16 July 2025
If July’s all about the classics, then we couldn’t skip this one. High in the Saddle is our sexy spin on the iconic cowgirl sex position, where the receiving partner takes the top spot and total control of the pace, rhythm, and vibe!
It’s face-to-face, body-to-body, and all about movement. Whether you’re rocking gently for maximum clitoral contact or bouncing your way to a breathless finish, this position gives the person on top the power to lead and the freedom to do what feels best. Want it slow and sensual? Stay low and close. Want a show-stopping grind? Sit tall, engage those thighs, and ride your heart out!
There’s plenty for your hands to do too—the penetrating partner’s hands can reach up to cup their lover’s face, chest, waist, hips, or rear, and the receiver’s hands can rest on the bottom partner’s chest, play with their own body, or hold a little toy in place for some extra fun! Something like the We-Vibe Touch X Lay-On Vibrator is a great choice thanks to its smooth and slim palm-sized shape that fits easily between bodies, making it a perfect pick for clitoral stimulation that syncs with your rhythm. Dor something you can both enjoy, try the Pretty Love Gemma Vibrating Clitoral & Perineal Cock Ring—just slide it on, grab the remote, and feel the buzz underneath every thrust…
Need some glide? A few drops of JO® H2O Water-Based Lubricant go a long way, keeping things slick without interrupting the moment.
The High in the Saddle sex position isn’t just about being on top, it’s about owning the moment, making it yours, and having your partner absolutely loving every second of it. So go ahead! Ride at your pace and take in the view, but be warned! Your lover might never want to be on top again… 😜
