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Fingering Fantasies

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This week, we’ll be exploring the classic and timeless techniques of fingering, an intimate act that can lead to extraordinary pleasure! While they may seem straightforward, there are plenty of ways to elevate and enhance the experience, perfect for foreplay or standalone play. Best of all, fingering doesn’t require any extra equipment, so let’s dive in!

Fingering is an art form that involves using your fingers to stimulate your partner’s erogenous zones (most often the vulva and vagina), and depending on your technique, this can be incredibly intimate and highly pleasurable when done right. Start by setting the mood with a relaxed environment — dim the lights, play some soft music, and ensure both partners are comfortable. Take time to tease and explore other areas of your partner’s body that aren’t their vulva, like caressing your partner’s inner thighs, hips, waist, chest, or neck to turn them on and prep them for penetration.

Lubrication is key to a great fingering experience to prevent uncomfortable friction and enhance pleasure! Saliva on its own doesn’t last long and can be quite drying to the sensitive skin in intimate areas, so we recommend always using a good-quality personal lubricant like Uberlube, which has a silicone-based formula that provides a super long-lasting glide without becoming sticky so your experience flows smoothly from start to finish. Begin with gentle touches, running your fingers over your partner's body. Pay attention to their reactions and adjust accordingly, moving on from areas where they seem uncomfortable and lingering in the spots that make their body ask for more. For those with vulvas, focus on the clitoris, which is located above the vaginal entrance (and often hidden underneath a protective section of skin known as the clitoral hood) and the G-spot, which lives on the upper wall of the vagina a few centimetres in (and sometimes feels slightly rougher/spongier than the surrounding tissue). Use a combination of circular motions and light pressure, and consider adding a clitoral toy to take care of the external stimulation while you focus on the internal sensations. A small clitoral stimulator like the Seduction Nuvo can be a great addition, and this particular bullet vibrator is great because it offers both air pulse sensations and vibrations for double the fun!

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