Fingering Day

July 28 is “Fingering Day”, a day we can attribute to anyone and everyone who enjoys a digit or two. Similar to our previous weeks, these shapes all need to start with the right mood, communication, and playful curiosity. 

This week, the receiving partner is to relax on their back with their hips propped up with a cushion or the  Leto Sex Pillow for an even better angle. Their back and hips should feel supported,  but make sure to adjust the angle and reduce strain. The giver then should make themselves comfortable between their partner's legs, keeping the environment calm and unhurried. The emphasis here is on patience, communication, and staying responsive to each other’s comfort throughout. Nothing needs to be rushed, just a steady, attentive pace and a shared focus on how things feel. Before jumping right in, ensure your partner is adequately lubricated to avoid any unwanted friction. Our lubricant range is sure to have you covered based on your needs. 

Start touching above and around your partners genitles, explore their thighs, belly, chest and arms. Feel their body soften into your touch, then keep the focus on external pleasure as you find your way to the vulva or anus. In this position, prioritise comfort, access, and relaxation. Try teasing, light touches to firmer caresses, explore circular motions, and when the receiver feels ready, slowly move from external focus to internal. Explore with one finger and try curving the pad of your fingertip up towards their front body while gently moving in and out. Depending on your partner's desires, you may stay consistent, slow and gentle, or explore deeper and faster movements, and adding a second finger. With all shapes, make sure you’re checking in with your partner to really find the best sensations for them.