Best Couples' Sex Toys: Our Top Picks for Playing Together

The best sex toys for couples often start with a link and a cheeky "thoughts?" text. We've picked four you can already picture using together, each suited to a very different kind of shared play.

Some are made for hands-free fun side by side. Others let one of you take the controls from across the room, or across the country, and with exciting Black Friday offers coming to Sexyland, there's no better time to start the conversation.

Key Takeaways

• Sync Lite is the simplest starting point in this shortlist.
• Sync 2 is built around shared wearable stimulation.
• Nova 2 gives couples more versatility between solo and partnered play.
• Lush 3 is the clearest long-distance partner-control option.
• Choose by the experience you both want, not by the longest feature list.

Quick picks at a glance

Which couples toy sounds most like you two?

The best couples toy depends on how you want to play together. Sync Lite is the simpler entry point, Sync 2 suits shared wearable play, Nova 2 adds more versatility, and Lush 3 is the strongest fit for partner control across distance.

Pick the scenario first, and the toy will follow. Picture your ideal night: is it a cosy evening in, a flexible toy you can both enjoy separately too, or a little remote-control mischief?

Each of these couples' sex toys answers a different version of that question. That's why this list is about how you play, not which toy has the most buttons.

We-Vibe Sync 2

Dinner booked. Phones away. Something new to look forward to.

We-Vibe Sync 2 suits couples who want a toy designed to be worn during partnered play. It offers internal and external stimulation at the same time, so you both get to enjoy the moment without anyone juggling a toy.

As a wearable couples vibrator, its biggest win is that it's hands-free. That leaves your hands free for, well, everything else.

Sync 2 comes with both a remote and app control, which adds a playful layer to who's in charge tonight. One of you can take the lead, then swap whenever the mood shifts.

This is the pick if you're after the best couples vibrator for shared play and want the full experience from day one. If you'd rather start with something a little simpler, Sync Lite might be the gentler first step.

Want your date night to come with a plus-one? Make Sync 2 part of the plan.

We-Vibe Sync Lite

New to couples toys? Start here.

We-Vibe Sync Lite is the simplest starting point in this shortlist. It keeps the wearable couples design and app control, with fewer features to learn before the fun begins.

That makes it a relaxed way to discover what a wearable toy adds to your time together. There's less to figure out, which means more time enjoying each other.

It's ideal if one or both of you are trying a couples toy for the first time, or you simply prefer things uncomplicated. If you already know you want every feature going, Sync 2 is the step up.

Easy to start and hard to put down, Sync Lite is ready when you are.

We-Vibe Nova 2

Solo nights or shared ones? Why not both?

We-Vibe Nova 2 suits couples who want versatility. Its flexible rabbit design offers internal and external stimulation and app control, so it works just as well for solo time as it does with a partner.

That flexibility is the real selling point. Rather than a toy that only comes out on date night, Nova 2 earns its keep all week long.

App control means a partner can still join the fun, even when it's technically your solo session. It's the all-rounder of this line-up, perfect if you like a toy that pulls its weight.

Happy to join the party or fly solo, Nova 2 is the toy that’s always down for fun.

Lovense Lush 3

Miles apart, or just love being in charge? This one's for you.

Lovense Lush 3 is the clearest long-distance partner-control option in this shortlist. It's a wearable G-spot egg with app control, so your partner can take over whether they're in the next room or the next state.

As a partner controlled vibrator, it turns an ordinary evening into a game of who's holding the phone. Dinner out, a night on the couch or a video call across time zones all get a lot more interesting.

Among long distance sex toys for couples, it's the one that makes the distance feel shorter. It's also great fun for couples who live together but enjoy handing over control.

Sometimes the best seat is the passenger seat, so let Lush 3 put your partner in charge.

Which one should you send to your partner?

Send the one that made you both grin. Sync Lite is the easy first step, Sync 2 is the full shared experience, Nova 2 is the flexible all-rounder, and Lush 3 is the long-distance favourite.

• Still deciding? A few quick prompts can help you narrow it down together.
• Are you mostly together or apart? If you share the same space most nights, the Sync pair is made for couples' toys for date night. If distance is part of your story, Lush 3 keeps you connected.
• How much do you want to learn upfront? Sync Lite keeps things simple, while Sync 2 and Nova 2 give you more to explore from the start.
• Will you use it on your own too? Nova 2 moves easily between solo and partnered play, so it suits couples who want one toy that does both.
• Who's in charge? All four offer app control, so handing over the controls is part of the fun whichever you choose.
• Gifting it? Sync Lite is a thoughtful, low-pressure surprise for couples trying toys for the first time. For a partner who's already curious, Sync 2 or Lush 3 makes a bolder statement.

Then comes the best part. Send the link, add a cheeky emoji and wait for the reply.

Couples sex toy FAQs

How do long-distance sex toys work?

Long-distance sex toys connect to a compatible app so a partner can control selected functions from another location. Both of you will usually need an internet connection and the relevant app or account set up. For a deeper look at the tech, Sexyland's guide to app controlled sex toys for couples is a handy read.

How do you introduce sex toys into a relationship?

Start by talking openly about what you're both comfortable trying, then choose something together. A simple product with easy controls, like Sync Lite, can make the first experience feel less intimidating and a lot more fun.

What can you add to a couples date-night bundle?

A couples date-night bundle can include a toy plus extras such as lubricant, massage products, games or other accessories that fit the mood you want to create. Mix and match to build a night that feels like you two, from playful and silly to slow and romantic.

How do you clean shared sex toys?

Clean shared toys before and after each use, according to their material and waterproof rating. Let them dry fully before storage and follow the manufacturer's care instructions.

What lubricant works with couples toys?

Water-based lubricant is generally the safest starting point for most sex toys. Silicone- or oil-based lubricants may not suit every toy material, so always check the product instructions before use.

Ready to pick one together?

The best sex toys for couples are the ones that get you both a little excited before date night even starts. Simple, shared, versatile or long-distance, there's a pick here for every kind of together.

Exciting Black Friday offers are coming to Sexyland, so now's the time to settle on your favourite. Send the link, check the live offer when you're ready and make your next date night a little more interesting.

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