Why Winter Is Perfect for Hot Sex

As far as the seasons and sex drives go, you might assume that summer is when everyone wants to have the hottest sex, and more of it—after all, the longer days mean you’re often out and about for longer, you’re more social, more people are showing more skin with body-baring outfits, and the heat leaves your skin glistening with a carefree, sunkissed sheen! But if you feel like your libido is on the rise as the temperature drops, you’re not alone. In fact, multiple studies have shown that it’s normal to feel hornier than usual during the winter. Here’s why, as well as a few tips on how to bless this winter with your hottest sex and the adult toys to make it happen!

Why Cold Weather Boosts Desire & Comfort-Seeking

So what is it about the cold that gets us all hot and bothered? There are several possible explanations for this:

• Winter may have some biological perks in terms of pregnancy (and despite what we may want as individuals, our bodies’ primal instincts are always operating in the background, influencing us in subtle ways we might not even notice)—according to a study on how seasons can affect conception, the shift in daylight length leads to a better environment for a woman’s eggs and men produce higher-quality sperm during this time compared to summer. Couples are more likely to conceive during winter time, which may subconsciously increase their sex drives to fulfil our reproductive instincts.
• Testosterone levels are higher in winter, which plays a key role in sexual desire—testosterone has been linked to higher sexual desire in men and women, and according to a study on seasonal variation in testosterone, testosterone levels are highest for both men and women between late autumn and early winter, possibly due to changes in the climate and sleep patterns. Cuffing season is starting to make sense… 😉
• Winter inherently encourages intimacy and connection—have you ever heard of ‘Seasonal Affective Disorder’, or SAD? Researchers have found that our bodies produce less of it when there’s less sunlight, like in winter when the days are shorter, and this is thought to contribute to more feelings of loneliness and depression in the winter months. These changes in mood can fuel a desire to connect with somebody else, like a partner, and seek comfort from them through emotional and physical intimacy. Luckily, there's nothing that's more likely to get those feel-good hormones flowing again like a good old-fashioned orgasm! And of course, the obvious reason…
• Everyone’s just trying to stay warm—the cold, rainy weather can send us all straight to the couch to snuggle up under a blanket with a special someone, perfect for some Netflix and chill time that turns into something way hotter!

Best Ways to Heat Up Your Sex Life This Winter

Sex Toys & Accessories to Try This Winter

Sexyland Blaze Warming G-Spot Vibrator

This bendy silicone vibrator is one of Sexyland’s own warming adult toys that’s available for fast delivery and top of our list for perfect sexy toys for women. It has a curved G-spot head that directs the vibes to your innermost hotspot and also warms up to 48° Celsius! Try gently stroking the vibe in and out of yourself when the head is warm and luxuriate in the thrilling sensation of the hot tip gliding against your inner walls…

Winyi Derek Warming Rotating Vibrating Prostate Stimulator

This remote-control prostate pleasure powerhouse has 10 synchronised vibration and rotation patterns in the bulbous P-spot head for the targeted prostate pleasure you’re craving! The external arm also buzzes in time with the 10 vibration modes so your perineum doesn't get left out of the fun. Plus, the heating function reaches 42°C in just 5 minutes to keep you toasty warm!

Wicked® Toy Fever Warming Lubricating Gel

This intimate lubricant takes playtime to the next level and has been specifically developed for use with sex toys, enhancing vibrations with a rich and decadently thick jelly-like texture that stays in place without getting runny or messy. It also provides an erotically warm sensation for extra stimulation that you or a lucky lover will adore down there, making it perfect for solo and couples sex toys!

Intt Coconut-Flavoured Warming Vegan Massage Gel

Dreaming of whisking yourself away somewhere warmer? Create your own tropical paradise in your bedroom with this kissable massage gel that brings the woody-sweet taste of coconut to your intimate massage moments! The luscious scent and flavour are vegan-friendly for everyone to enjoy and the provides a gentle heat across your skin as you work it into those tight knots and soothe sore spots, making this massage gel a lovely winter warmer to take your mind off the cold.

Tips for Staying Comfortable & Safe During Winter Sex

• Keep your socks on—did you know that wearing socks during sex is more likely to result in better sex and orgasm? You do now. There seem to be both physiological and psychological benefits to wearing socks, including a relaxed body and mind making it easier to orgasm and improving blood flow to the genitals since socks reduces the blood flow needed to warm your extremities.
• If you're engaging in impact play (spanking, flogging, etc.), warm up the recipient's skin first with some lighter impacts first and some soothing rubbing between each one so the shock of the sting isn't as intense against cold skin (unless that's what you're going for). You can also try using softer spanking implements, like a suede flogger or a plush paddle.
• Cosy it up—if you've got any extra-plush blankets, now is the time to break them out and lay them over your regular bedding or couch for that extra touch of comfort, softness, and warmth! Sexyland’s Fun Specialists are big fans of the Sportsheets® Pivot™ Protector Sex Blanket, which has a silky-soft upper layer and a waterproof inner lining to keep any fluids, messes, or spills from seeping into your furniture. Best of all, it’s machine-washable and it looks just like an ordinary blanket so you can just leave it out and snuggle up on or under it at any time!

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