Top 5 Couples Games for Date Night That Lead to More Than Just Laughs

Spring has sprung, bringing with it those spring showers that, while refreshing, usually mean you’ll be spending the evening at home. But don’t despair, you’re not doomed to the endless Netflix scroll! Couples games are an easy way to pass the time and spice up a night in, and if you think games are just for kids, think again, there are plenty of romantic games for adults, including sexy games for couples that are designed to spice up intimacy if you don’t want the weather to be the only thing that’s wet…💦

Can couples games really improve intimacy?

Whether you’re both taking your relationship super seriously or just going with the flow, playful activities (like playing games with each other) bring novelty and fun into your relationship. Not only does this prevent you from falling into a rut or growing apart, but couples games serve as an outlet that can help partners learn more about each other's aspirations, desires, and vulnerabilities, all while enjoying each other's company in a safe, pressure-free environment where the only goal is to have fun!

In fact, research shows that couples who are in ‘playful’ adult relationships are more likely to feel connected and have overall higher relationship satisfaction, likely because they are more open to communication, resolving conflict, and fostering trust in fun, safe environments together. For example, sometimes teasing a partner about their shortcomings and weird little quirks can be a gentler way of bringing them up without the sting that normally accompanies point-blank criticism. The unserious nature of the conversation can make it safer to bring up more serious topics in a lighthearted way, which can help to defuse tense situations by reminding your significant other that no matter what stresses you’re under, both of you are still secure in a safe and loving relationship.

Another big way that couples games can enhance a romantic bond is by providing a structured framework where players can explore their fantasies and show more of themselves without fear of judgment. This makes showing affection and being vulnerable with one another safe and simple, so you can ease into those deeper conversations that might feel too intimidating to bring up outside of a fun, game-related context.

Co-operative games (games where players are working towards a common goal) take this a step further by encouraging players to collaborate on tasks and solve problems together, which fosters a sense of unity and establishes a solid foundation for a lasting relationship. In intimacy games where the end result is sexual in nature, playfulness can put a fun spin on your usual seduction tactics that makes sex more lighthearted and enjoyable, especially if both players feel that the winner has ‘earned’ their reward! 😏

Best games for shy or new couples

Playing games with your partner serves as a powerful tool for enhancing communication and strengthening your bond, which can be especially helpful for couples who have just started dating. This can come in the form of simply asking icebreaker questions that range from silly to deep, which provides valuable learning opportunities to gain deeper insight into what makes the other person who they are, or problem-solving and role-playing different scenarios together.

If you want to ease slowly into getting to know your new boo one-on-one, a game like the Aussie Edition of Let’s Get Deep is a great place to start (though you can also play this game in group settings). This is one of many question-based couples card games where the cards are simply there to stimulate curiosity and create a dialogue of discovery between you. With 400 questions across 3 levels of depth and intimacy, Let’s Get Deep is among the best games for couples to get closer at any stage of a relationship. Example questions include:

• Do you sing in the shower? (Level 1: Ice Breaker)
• What’s your guilty pleasure? (Level 2: Deep)
• What do your friends think of me? (Level 3: Deeper)

Some of the questions in the deck are more applicable to relationships that have been going for longer, but even if you pull a card that doesn't apply to you, you can still have fun with it! You can either draw another card, or if you’ve got a really good feeling about your special someone, why not take a guess at what your answer might be once you reach that point in your relationship?

If you’re at an event together and feeling a bit more adventurous (and who isn’t when there’s plenty of liquid courage going around?), you can try a drinking game like the Couples Battle Edition of Do or Drink! This adult card game is designed for multiple couples at any stage of their relationship to play in teams of two, perfect for a game night among friends or at a party. Pit yourselves head-to-head against other couples to see who the best pair of partiers is while everyone learns more about each other (and themselves), and has plenty of laughs along the way!

It comes with everything you need to play, including cups, ping pong balls, markers and dry-erase whiteboards to help you fulfil the tasks laid out over 250 prompt cards that guide gameplay, from voting, truth or dare, physical challenges, and more. If you can’t (or don’t want to) complete a card’s challenge, you can drink the specified amount of forfeit drinks to weasel your way out of it, but if you successfully complete the challenge, you win points, and the team with the most points at the end wins!

Best romantic & intimacy games for adults

Ready to take things to the next level with your lover? Monogamy is one of the most celebrated romantic games for adults, and its status as one of the best-selling couples board games of all time has earned it plenty of awards, as well as the coveted ‘As recommended by Cosmopolitan’ accolade on the back of its box.

Monogamy is designed to be played by two partners who are in a committed relationship with each other, granting players the thrill of rediscovering each other and rekindling their passion while also adding a touch of naughty fun to the occasion. It encourages communication on new levels about new topics, bringing couples closer together in their relationship on a deep and meaningful level. You’ll explore each other’s innermost thoughts and desires with over 400 thought-provoking prompts and steamy challenges, which increase in intensity as you move your pieces around the board and move up through 3 levels of intimacy. Games for adults don’t get much more in-depth than this one, and it’s packed full of stimulating, sexy, and intimately revealing conversations and acts that ensure no two games are ever the same.

If you’d both rather save the deep talks for another night and just get straight down to business, you might prefer the You & Me Erotic Adult Card Game! This couples card game’s premise is simple—each of the 90 cards has a sexy act written on it, with 3 levels of intensity that determine how many points the act is worth (Intimate = 1 points, Naughty = 2 points, Hot = 3 points). The first player to reach 30 points wins any romantic or sexual favour of their choice, but there's a twist! The player carrying out the card's instructions is the one who wins the points, so you may find yourself stuck in a win-win position in this tantalising give-and-take dynamic…

Where to buy couples games online

Plenty of regular game shops will have romantic games for adults available among all the family-friendly offerings, though these will be focused on relationship-building and emotional intimacy. Games that are designed to involve or end in sexual acts are not likely to be found anywhere other than adult stores like Sexyland, so if you’re in the mood to throw dice and throw down, why not check out Sexyland’s online range of couples games? We offer free standard shipping on all orders with no minimum spend, and we’ll upgrade you to express delivery at no extra charge on orders over $99. Alternatively, if you feel like having a spontaneous game night with a partner, check out our 2-hour delivery couples games and enjoy lightning-fast delivery in 2 hours or less for just an extra $20!