The Top Masturbation Toys for Men, as Recommended by Experts

Let’s face it, solo play for men gets kind of a bad rap. There’s this idea that it’s boring or basic, and when you compare it to the millions of sex toy options available for women, it can feel like people with penises have been left behind.

The good news is that’s not actually true though! There’s a huge range of men’s toys out there, and depending on what you’re into, in there. From strokers to butt plugs, cock rings to vibrators, the variety is bigger, better, and more exciting than ever.

Today we’ll take you through how to find the perfect toy to spice up your solo sessions, what types of male sex toys are available, what to consider when choosing the right adult toy for you, and how to include them in partnered play. We’ll also give you the lowdown on a few of our favourites that have earned their place in Sexyland’s Pleasure Hall of Fame!

What to Consider When Buying Adult Toys

Choosing the best toy starts with knowing what works for you. A few things to keep in mind:

• Comfort: You want something that suits your size and shape, feels good, and never pinches or pulls.

• Material quality: Stick with body-safe, non-toxic materials that feel amazing and are easy to clean.

• Ease of use: Go for intuitive designs with simple controls, rechargeable power, and minimal setup.

• Noise level: If discretion matters, opt for toys that keep the volume low while the sensations stay high.

• Purpose: Some toys are built for stamina training, others for intense stimulation. Know what you’re after and choose accordingly.
  
  

Pick your Pleasure

From rumbles to rings, there’s a wide range of masturbation toys designed for men, and they each bring something different to the table:

• Strokers: Designed to replicate the feeling of penetrative intercourse, strokers are all about texture, suction, and pressure to surround your penis with stimulation.

• Vibrators: While typically considered a ‘sex toy for women’, there are plenty of vibrators for men too, and they’re great for targeting the frenulum, perineum, or prostate. These toys deliver powerful sensations you might not expect in areas that feel good when stimulated in more intense ways than what a person’s hands or mouth can offer.

• Prostate stimulators: Prostate massagers and anal sex toys like butt plugs and anal beads can intensify orgasms and stimulate nerve-rich areas that many guys don’t explore because of the taboo that still lingers around male anal play. Still, we’ve said it before and we’ll say it again: all men should try anal toys!

• Cock Rings: These help maintain stronger erections and delay climax, resulting in longer-lasting sex and a stronger orgasm at the end of it. Some even vibrate for added pleasure!
  
  

Materials Matter

You don’t want to mess around with the wrong material, as it can result in less-than-hygienic circumstances that you’re better off not exposing yourself (or a partner) to. Our experts recommend:

• Body-safe silicone: Soft, smooth, and non-porous. Easy to clean since it’s usually waterproof (but always check the care manual) and a dream to use. Glides beautifully with water-based lubricants (but silicone-based lubricants should be avoided with silicone toys since they can degrade the material over time).

• TPE or TPR: Found in many strokers, it offers a skin-like softness but needs a little more care to stay hygienic.

• ABS plastic: Great for vibrators and remote controls or similar accessories, offering a firm feel and solid durability.

Always wash your toys with adult toy cleaner after use, store them properly, and use the right lubricant to keep both your skin and the toy in top shape.

Stamina Trainers, The Fun Way to Build Endurance

Want to last longer in bed? Toys can help with that, believe it or not! Strokers, which come in varied textures and tightness, allow you to practice control by getting close and pulling back. It’s called edging, and it’s a simple, satisfying way to boost stamina without the pressure of performance (plus it feels incredible, and the orgasm at the end will be more intense as a result of all the buildup).

One of Sexyland’s favourite stamina-builders is the Fleshlight® Stamina Training Unit™ Vagina Masturbator, which is packed with a specially designed texture that provides maximum contact and stimulation so you can practise staying in control no matter what!

Bringing Male Toys into Partnered Play

Men’s sex toys aren’t just for solo missions. Cock rings, prostate massagers, and vibrating strokers can add a whole new layer to coupled play. Some toys come with remote controls or are app-compatible, making it easy for a partner to get involved from the other side of the bed or the other side of the world! Whether you’re spicing things up or experimenting with power play, male toys can turn up the intensity for both of you.

Sexyland’s Top 6 Men’s Toy Picks

Looking for expert-approved options? Here are six of our top picks for next-level pleasure:

1. Sexyland Reverb Pulsating Vibrating F-Spot Stimulator
   Designed for deep, targeted stimulation of the frenulum (AKA the ‘F-spot’), the Reverb delivers pulsing sensations that feel like the sleeve is rocking back and forth along the sensitive tip of your penis, as well as powerful vibrations that reverberate all around you for a unique, all-encompassing experience.
   

2. Lovense Edge 2 Prostate Massager
   Adjustable and long-distance-friendly, the Edge 2 is perfect for exploring prostate pleasure with its contoured shape. It’s app-controlled and ideal for solo or partnered play, delivering rumbles right where it counts.
   

3. Sexyland Secret Remote-Control Whisper-Quiet Vibrating Cock Ring
   Lightweight, whisper-quiet, and surprisingly powerful, this vibrating ring is built for shared pleasure. The remote control adds convenience and excitement, especially when you're handing it over to someone else, and the large vibrating head offers clitoral stimulation for a partner to enjoy!
   

4. Sexyland Echo F-Spot Thumping Textured Vibrating Stroker
   This stroker combines vibration with a unique thumping pad inside the soft silicone sleeve for an immersive experience. Textured inside and designed to hit the F-spot just right, this tip-focused toy is perfect for those who want something a little different.
   

5. Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage
   Compact and open-ended, this Fleshlight is perfect for quick sessions or incorporating into foreplay. It’s easy to clean, travel-friendly, and ideal for solo stroking fun or enhancing couples’ oral play too!
   

6. Crazy Bull Passion Lady Vagina and Anal Masturbator
   With two ultra-realistic entries (vagina and anus) and soft, textured canals inside, this toy offers variety and depth. It’s a great pick if you’re looking for something that looks and feels closer to the real deal without sacrificing the convenience and compactness of a toy.

Keen to level up your solo sessions or add some new energy to the bedroom? The toys we’ve gone through here are just the tip (wink wink) of the iceberg! Hit up the Sexyland website to explore our full range of toys for men, and don’t forget about our 2-hour delivery option if you feel like turning ‘me time’ into the main event!