How to Choose Bold & Seductive Lingerie for Valentine’s Day

Whether you’re heading out or getting hot and heavy at home this Valentine’s Day, lingerie can help you look and feel your most confident, both in and out of the bedroom! With so many lingerie styles to pick from, it can be a daunting prospect (especially as the day is already upon us), but don’t fret — if you’ve forgotten about Feb 14th or just left it to the last minute, Sexyland has plenty of lingerie available on our 2-hour delivery service that’ll be at your doorstep in a flash for you to shimmy in to (and then out of)! Here’s how to create your sexiest lingerie look ever, perfect for you or a lucky lover to enjoy… 😘

Turn up the romance factor

Valentine’s lingerie is a great way to excite a lover’s senses and inspire confidence in the wearer by making them feel every bit as hot as they deserve! Soft pink and racy red lingerie for Valentine’s Day are always popular choices, and we’re also loving romantic motifs on lingerie like heart-shaped charms, roses, and sumptuous materials like lace and silk that are irresistible to the touch. We’re loving JSY’s Lace Heart Cutout Lingerie Set that comes with a gartered bra and thigh-high stockings for head-to-toe hotness, and the Fantasy Lingerie® Hearts of Fire Pearl-Back Crotchless Teddy (also available in plus-size) if you want something extra-spicy… 🔥🔥🔥

Set the (kink) scene

Speaking of spicy, if you want to show off your freaky side this Valentine’s day, lingerie made of fetish-tastic materials like wet look leather (or faux leather if you’re vegan), sensual textures like fishnet and sheer lace, or strappy bondage harness-inspired designs are always a hit in the bedroom! We’re loving the Liquid Onyx Wet Look Cutout Lingerie Set from Exposed® (also available in plus-size) that shows off just the right amount of skin through its enticing cutouts, and the fact that the suspender belt has attached leg garters to achieve that sexy thigh-high stockings look without the need for stockings.

You can even let your freak flag fly a little in public by pairing your sexiest lingerie with everyday clothing to create a head-turning outfit for date night or dancing the night away — try tucking a teddy like Mapalé's® Peaked Underwire Wet Look & Fishnet Bodysuit into a figure-hugging skirt or your favourite going-out pants and you’re ready to rock and roll!

Embrace a new persona with adult costumes

Just because you might not be heading out doesn’t mean you can’t still get dressed up — after all, there’s no better time to flirt with a fantasy than when you’re both in the mood for something fun to do behind closed doors!

Roleplay costumes can also be a fun way to explore fantasies and expand your comfort zones in a safe environment with someone you trust. When everyone involved is on board, it can provide excellent opportunities for you to experience intimacy on a different level, but it’s important to start with open communication about everything before you start, including:

• establishing limits and safe words (a word or phrase you say when you want to pause or stop what you’re doing — if your scene involves not being able to speak, we recommend having a non-verbal safeword like jingling a set of keys)
• discussing expectations of what you would like to happen during the roleplay/scene
• what aftercare you would like and what forms of aftercare you are capable of providing for the other person — aftercare is important after all kinds of sex, not just BDSM or kinky sex, and being awash with the afterglow is a wonderful way to foster positive post-sex communication and reflection.

Whether you like both partners to be on equal footing or prefer a power dynamic like Dominant/submissive, there’s a roleplay scenario to suit anyone’s tastes. What’s hot right now is the Fantasy Lingerie 5-Star Service Wet Look Maid Costume (also available in plus-size), which has a cheeky rear cutout to expose your buns for a tasty view when you turn around! For men, the Roma Butler Beefcake Costume is the perfect way to show your lover that you’re ready to serve them exactly how they desire all night long…

Put a trendy twist on timeless lingerie styles

The first known instances of underwear are thought to be from prehistoric times and were more functional than fashionable, and as the evolution of lingerie styles has progressed through the years, certain types of lingerie have cemented themselves as staples in our wardrobes — think classic bra and G-string thong lingerie sets, chemises, corsets, and so on.

But of course, just because these lingerie styles have been around for a long time doesn’t mean you can’t shake up how they’re styled to keep up with today’s aesthetics! For example, the floaty silhouette of a babydoll is universally flattering, and the Lovely Lies Hanky Hem Babydoll & G-String thong lingerie duo modernises the look with its angular hemline that has pointed panels to create a hypnotic flow of movement around your hips and thighs (also available in plus-size).

If you prefer something a little more fitted, JSY’s Strappy Lace Underboob Cutout Lingerie Set wraps around your figure with a sultry mix of satin elastic and delightfully sheer lace in feminine florals. Striking cutouts all over your body create a trendy cage strap effect, and there are even thigh-high stockings included with this lingerie set to complete this erotic ensemble from head to toe!

Need your Valentine’s lingerie in time for your steamy plans? Shop 2hr Delivery lingerie online and get your lust-worthy look delivered to your doorstep in 2 hours or less, or pop into your nearest Sexyland adult store and beat the buzzer by grabbing your goodies to go!