Best Female Toys You Can Buy Online To Boost Your Libido in 2025

Ah, libido. That curious buzzword that sends everybody scrambling for ‘fixes’ if it’s not at a ‘normal’ level, but what if we told you there’s no such thing as a one-size-fits-all libido level?

Libido is a term that basically refers to your sex drive or the desire for sex, though it’s an important part of your health and wellbeing beyond just sex. There is no right or wrong level of libido to have, and there’s no ‘normal’ amount of sex to be having either (whether you’re in a relationship or not) since sexual appetite is not the only thing that impacts whether sex can happen.

This article will discuss what women who want to increase their sex drive can do to achieve that, but if you take just one thing away from this article, let it be this:

As long as you feel like the frequency and intensity of your sexual activities is right for you, then it’s right for you (and that includes if you’re abstinent, asexual, or otherwise feel like having no sex is right for you). If you’re worried about your sex drive or it’s negatively impacting you in some way, then you should have an open conversation about it with yourself, as well as your partner(s) and/or a trusted healthcare professional when you’re ready for it and feel that it’s appropriate.

What Affects Female Libido & Desire?

Libido can vary drastically between individuals without anything else going on behind the scenes, but libido can also be affected by a wide array of other factors such as:

• personal preferences
• relationship circumstances (for example, it’s common for new couples to have more sex in the early stages of a relationship compared to later on)
• conflicts with your partner that reduce emotional connection (trust issues, unresolved fights, lack of communication about desires, and so on)
• sleep quality and fatigue
• lifestyle (after all, limited-privacy environments and super-busy schedules don’t leave a lot of freedom to get down!)
• past experiences, especially negative or traumatic ones
• physical and mental wellbeing
• low self-esteem or poor body image
• medical conditions
• hormone levels (especially when those hormone levels change, such as during pregnancy or breastfeeding)
• ageing or entering a new stage of life such as menopause, which involves declining estrogens levels and is known to tank your typical level of desire
• certain kinds of medication
• substances like alcohol and nicotine from smoking
• discomfort or pain during sex

How Adult Toys & Sexual Enhancers Can Help

It may sound too good to be true, but research shows that women’s sex toys like vibrators and clitoral stimulators can indeed help increase sexual desire, arousal, and lubrication to boost your libido!

Adult toys can stimulate blood flow to the genital area, which can increase sensitivity, arousal, and sexual desire. They also offer a range of sensations that can enhance your sexual experience and pleasure beyond what you or a partner can achieve with hands, mouths, and genitals. There are more erogenous zones all over your body other than just your genitals so you can try out your sex toys on other spots too, like the nipples, the nape of your neck, along the inner forearm and elbow ditch, and more…

You can also try female libido enhancers that act as liquid clitoral stimulators—with just a drop of oil or a small dab of gel applied to the clitoris, these sexual enhancers create an exciting tingling sensation that increases blood flow to the clitoris. This not only increases self-lubrication (which is great for women who are experiencing vaginal dryness), it also makes the whole genital area more responsive to stimulation so it’s easier to be fully aware of your body and the things that feel good to you, which can lead to more intense and more frequent orgasms that come easier than ever!

Some of our customers’ favourite sexual enhancers include:

• Original-Strength On Arousal Oil For Her (also available in Ultra, and Lite strengths to suit your needs)—this oil creates an exciting 'buzzing' sensation that increases blood flow to the clitoris and contains a unique, all-natural blend of pure essential oils and botanical extracts that’s safe to use during oral sex. The tingling sensation intensifies over time and lasts for up to 45 minutes of heart-pounding fun!
• Screaming O® Climax Cream—this cream is easy to massage into the clitoris and won’t drip or leave mess anywhere. It contains L-arginine, an amino acid known to help boost blood flow for an extra-sensitive, warm and buzzy feeling that starts working after just 30 seconds!
• Intt Vibration! Cooling Tingling Effect Ice Mint-Flavoured Gel—this stimulant gel has a refreshing minty flavour in case you and your lover can’t get enough of oral pleasure and acts like the coolest liquid vibrator ever, bringing waves of cooling, pulsing, and vibration-like sensations for over 30 minutes of pure pleasure…

Best Female Toys to Try in 2025

Sexyland Rose Vibrator

Even though it’s been 3 years since the original Adorime® model went viral on TikTok, the Rose Vibrator is still one of the most popular clitoral stimulators on the market, so if you haven’t tried it yet, it’s not too late to see what all the fuss is about. One Sexyland customer left a 5-star review on it just this week that said it brought them to a squirting orgasm within a minute, and hundreds of others still rave about how this clitoral suction toy is a must-have for any woman’s sex toy collection!

Sexyland Phantom Super-Power Comfort Handle Wand Vibrator

If there’s one thing that kills the mood when you’re playing with sex toys, it’s a cramping hand, and that goes for your poor partner too if they’re the one holding the toy. But with this master-crafted beast in your bedroom arsenal, you can say goodbye to sore, numb hands and hello to effortless, distraction-free pleasure! The Phantom Wand’s specially designed handle minimises vibration transference into your hand so you can just focus on how the vibes feel against your body, whether you’re massaging sore spots or teasing and pleasing sweet spots with the 7 ultra-powerful vibration patterns. The wireless design also makes it a cinch to use anywhere on your body so you can target multiple erogenous zones for richer, more fulfilling play.

Leto Jolly 2-in-1 Mini Clitoral Suction Stimulator

Need a toy that takes up as little space as possible? This is one of the teeniest-tiniest clitoral stimulators Sexyland stocks and even pulls double duty as a 2-in-1 toy, proving that good things come in small packages! There are 5 whisper-quiet frequencies to enjoy in 2 ways—the motor rapidly ‘thumps’ behind the silicone pad inside the hollow chamber for contactless suction-like sensations, or, if you prefer direct clitoral contact, you can remove the silicone cover and transform the suction into vibration for versatile pleasure.

Ready to give your libido (and your bedroom) the boost it deserves? Come see our range of female sexual enhancers and adult toys for women at your nearest Sexyland adult store, or shop online 24/7 and get free delivery on all orders!