8 Erotic Fantasy & Role Play Costumes That Will Heat Things Up

29 July 2025

Sure, it might not be Halloween for a few more months, but if you ask us, sexy costumes and adult role-play outfits are an all-year-round delight! If you’re after naughty costume ideas to build an extra lust-worthy winter wardrobe or just a hot and steamy way to escape a boring bedroom routine, here are Sexyland’s top 10 fantasy costumes and lingerie sets to help bring your sexy role-play characters to life… 😉

Why Fantasy & Role Play Boost Intimacy

Acting isn’t just for Hollywood stars; it has a place in your love life, too, specifically when it comes to role-playing! If you’re looking for a way to explore your sexual fantasies, shake off the shackles of everyday reality, break out of a bedroom rut, and engage in power dynamics with your partner, sexual role play is a great way to do all of it in one go. It doesn’t have to be an intimidating endeavour either, as it can range from light dirty talk while in character all the way to fully costumed play, complete with props.


If you’re feeling insecure about acting out scenes with a partner, start with this checklist:

  • Have an open, judgment-free conversation with them first where you describe your desires, what intensity you would be comfortable with, and explain what you’re hoping to get out of the role-play scenario.
  • Set boundaries around triggers, subjects you’d rather avoid, and things you’d rather not say or do (even if it fits in with the scene). You don’t necessarily have to explain why you’d rather not engage with these elements if you're not comfortable with that, this is more so that you don’t accidentally take each other out of the mood.
  • Establish a de-escalation plan and a safeword. In case things go awry or you just want to hit pause on the action for a moment, a safeword is the perfect way to stop play, recollect yourselves, and check in with each other to ensure you’re both safe and comfortable. Just make sure it’s not something that would naturally come up during play!

Remember that this is an opportunity for the two of you to freely express yourselves and be creative together, so have fun, be open with each other, and stay emotionally connected during the scene.

8 Best Fantasy & Role Play Costumes to Try

  1. The JSY® 5-Piece Sexy Teacher Plunging Teddy Costume, feeling hot for teacher instead? This alluring bedroom costume comes with everything you need to enhance your role play experience as the head of the classroom, including a long-sleeved bodysuit with a plunging neckline and tartan print bottoms, a matching necktie, a waist belt with shoulder suspenders, sexy rectangular faux glasses, and an extendable pointer rod that’s perfect for dishing out a little extra discipline… 📏💥

  2. The plus-size JSY 5-Piece Sexy Teacher Bodystocking Dress Costume, for curvy educators, look no further than this sultry bedroom costume set! It comes with a fishnet bodystocking minidress that hugs your curves and exposes them through playful cutouts, a shirt collar with an attached pinstripe necktie, a G-string panty that peeks through the sheer hosiery, and faux glasses. You’ll love the included extendable pointer rod too since it will help you direct your class' attention to what they should be staring at. After all, there’s no way your students will be able to take their eyes off of you…

  3. The Roma Executive Secretary Bombshell 4-Piece Costume Set, ever dreamed of having your own (or being a) sexy personal assistant? Bring your boardroom fantasy into the bedroom with this costume that’s giving ‘office siren’ to the max with its cropped tie-up collared blouse, a wide curve-cinching belt, a sheer plaid pencil skirt with attached garter clips, and high-waisted panties that peep out through the transparent material. Don’t forget to add on some stockings to complete your ensemble!

  4. The Lovely Lies Ruffled Tie-Up Top and Lovely Lies Micro Mini Plaid Schoolgirl Skirt, okay, technically this is two costume pieces, but put them together and you get a perfectly seductive sexy schoolgirl outfit! These two items are always at the top of Sexyland’s bestselling fantasy costumes list, so it’s clear that our customers can’t get enough of schoolgirls as sexy role play characters. Top off the look with some white thigh-highs and some Mary Jane-style heels and you’re ready to get held back for infringing the uniform policy!

    (Working with a fuller figure? Sexyland also carries a plus-size Lovely Lies Ruffled Tie-Up Top and plus-size Lovely Lies Micro Mini Plaid Schoolgirl Skirt to suit your curves!)

  5. The JSY Sexy Men's Doctor Costume With Coat, Trunks & Stethoscope, just want to be taken care of by a healthcare hunk? This sexy doctor costume is one of the best adult role play outfits to bring that fantasy to life with its short-sleeved white lab coat, medical cross trunks, and a play stethoscope so the doc can hear your heartbeat race…

  6. The plus-size Fantasy Lingerie® Pulse Check Nurse Teddy & Skirt Set, why not ditch the scrubs in favour of something way sexier like this bodysuit and skirt costume? The teddy is made of sheer white mesh that lets just the barest glimpses of skin peek through while its plunging neckline and cutout rear shows off your best assets. To add just a hint of coverage, this adult role play outfit’s ensemble also includes optional medical cross nipple pasties and a red pleated miniskirt made of shiny vinyl. Top it off with the nurse headband and you’ll catch the eye of everyone on your ward!

  7. The JSY 5-Piece Sexy Sweetheart Nurse Costume, can’t resist a classic sexy nurse getup? We get it, and so does JSY. This adult role play outfit’s allure is the traditional white base with red contrast piping in a bodycon fit that hugs your figure. It also includes a medical logo headband and a play stethoscope to accessorise your look, plus a cheeky thong that’s sure to perk up your patients!

  8. The Mapalé® Sexy French Maid Criss-Cross Bodysuit Costume Set (also available in plus-size), housekeeping has never looked or felt hotter than in this sultry bedroom costume! This thrilling 3-piece costume consists of a teddy with a corset-like front, a lacy apron, and a matching headpiece to put the finishing touch on your uniform. You have to look your best for the Masters and Mistresses of the houses you keep, of course…

Feeling inspired to shake up your bedroom with fantasy costumes? Explore adult role play outfits at Sexyland’s physical stores, or shop our range of sexy costumes online and enjoy 2hr Delivery on our bestselling fantasy costumes and lingerie sets!

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